Thanks a tons ladies-you are all such a great support team and its nice to know you can get logical help when its really needed.

I did go on hubbys account and send the car payment through yesterday. He doesnt know yet. Also, the payment was only 30 days late so a re-po isnt an issue. I was trying to avoid another 30 day late mark on my credit report. It ended up not making a difference anyway, I called the credit union that the payments go to to see if they received it and they said "It takes 3-4 days to for your bank to process the payment and get it to us." So, Ive got a 30 day late and hubbys going to be upset with me. Oh Well! (I say with a smile)
Also to those of you who mentioned my personal safety, he has never gotten physically violent with any of us. He does have a temper and his attitude makes for a lot of tension in the home.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your support again!! Ill keep you posted as to his reaction when he finds out. Hugs

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I've been concerned about you. I'm glad to hear that you are still in one piece.

I still think that you and your dh need to sit down and have an honest talk about your finances and set up a budget. He needs to understand how important it is to pay for things and to make sure that payments are made on time to protect one's credit rating. He's very naive if he thinks he can just drive a car around and not pay for it.

I'm glad he's never hit you; however, there's a first time for everything. When dealing with a person with a bad temper, you never know if or when their violence level will escalate. He needs to learn some anger management. Even if he never lays a finger on you, he should never treat you in an emotionally abusive way.

Thanks for letting us know, some of us were quite worried about you. Take care and good luck when he finds out.

I was just wondering about what happened so I'm glad to see an update!! I'm proud of you for taking a stand and doing something you knew was right. Maybe now will be a good time to have a talk with him about equality in the financial decisions -- and your marriage in general. Let us know how it goes....

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Mommy to Dakota, Wife to James
Proud Air Force Family

we also struggle with finances so I understand how rough it can be!! So no advice here just a hug of support

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Casey loving wife to Steven mom to 4 bratty girls Amanda, Rebecca, Jessica and Makayla
Where did my baby go

Thank you for the update I just wanted to knwo you are ok