I joined this group primarily for the same reasons you describe in your post. I too have an 11 week old DD and I left my job in February to become a SAHM. Like you, I felt very lonely and isolated almost desperate. This group has been a tremendous help because although I do not post regularly (this is my first but wanted you to know that you are not alone) I feel like I am interacting with people who have similar lives and issues as I do and I feel better. I enjoy looking at all the pictures of the chidlren/weddings/babtisms etc. and reading about the events going on. This is really what I enjoyed while I was working. I don't really miss the work,commute,daycare problems (I have two other children). I do miss the $$ though. Somehow, I am not as sad. It probably is PPD as well but I think in a way you also mourn the loss of your old life and it is sad. Now, I am looking forward to much happier times with my new baby and my other two terrific kids. I hope you feel better soon. Take care

Jen, you should call your doctor. I know everyone else has posted this before me but I agree. Its hard w/ two kids and being home all the time as opposed to working. I went through the same thing when my daughter was born. I went crazy being at home all the time and feeling like I couldnt go out. Seeing my doctor helped a ton! Also, make plans to go out w/ some friends w/ or w/o the girls. You and dh go out to dinner one night and spend some time together. I know that those things helped for me also another big thing was that we lived in a small space at the time as well and I decided it was time to declutter. I went through everything and got rid of a ton of stuff. Not only did it keep me busy so that I wasnt bored but I got rid of so much stuff that I felt better just being in that environment. Hang in there! I am sending you big hugs. If you ever need to talk just PM or email me.

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I know exactly how you feel. I felt the same way with Joe. Except I was too stubborn to get some medication to help me through it. It is the one regret I have that I didn't get on something to help me enjoy that time with him. Go to your Dr's and if money is tight, ask him for some free samples. Drug reps are always providing medication to them. You won't need it forever, just to serve as a bridge until you are feeling better. Being a new Mom is so overwhelming. I remeber not wanting to go out either because of all the crap you lug around. I remember actually resenting Joe for needing all of that. Of course your probably not sleeping well either so that is also a consideration. Hang in there, things will get better.

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Like everyone said call your doctor. PPD is pretty serious. It is another form of depression. There are so many signs/names of depression that might need medications, counseling in a group or private.

Lexie'smom....I have been there before...I was diagnose when I had 4th child. I never took medications for depression but went to counseling...for years now.

I am not crazy although dh thinks so...it helped to deal issues in our life and what is bothering me. I have learned why I was mostly depress is b/c I lost my mom due to breast cancer...she died at a young age 42 yrs old. My mom was l;ike my life line...she did everything for me. When she died...i died.

From counseling...we realize that her death took a toll on me and when she died...I needed her the most in my life...b/c I married young at age 19. I use to draw alot...and painting before my mom died but she died...i lost desire to draw and paint. Dh and I were fighting all the time... now it is different. We don't fight as much and I am getting back my life.

Now, I made my peace and I am stronger now... realizing that I can do things without crying, controling the angre, getting out of bed, trying to do things with our children. I am still healing after 13 years since my mom died.

I am doing things for others to help support them in thier needs. I am volunteer mentor for DV program and if you need anything just email me.

I wish you the best and think positive and we can be your support group here.
Take cares...

dabie

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your not spoiled your stressed and the mom of a new baby, more than likely sleep deprived too.

its highly possible you have PPD and there is no harm in that, its a lot more usual than you think.

Pleas Please Hon go to the doc as Amy said you will feel so much better soon and its not a weakness to need help we all do at some point.

big hugs

Anne

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Update...Thanks to all who responded....I went to the doc and she prescribed Zolof.

We'll see

Good for you! I hope it helps! But I also think getting out of the house into the sunshine will help too. Go for a walk, join a mom's group, whatever. Just don't hole up in your house all day. And, please feel free to vent to us anytime. I think most of us, at one time or another, have felt cooped up or depressed. That's why we're all here! To listen, offer support, and advice!

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I'm soo glad that you went to the dr's. We are all here for you!! Anytime of day....any day of the week!!!

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I'm glad that you went to see your Dr. and I hope everything gets better for you!

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Hi, Just wanted to check to see how you're doing. Hope the medication works. It may take a week before it works, which I'm sure your doctor told you.
At the very least, know that there are all these people here that are routing for you!!!
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Hang in there!