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02-18-2007, 11:14 PM
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Congrats, Martha!!!! It is a really tough road, but you made it.
Wyndser was nuk-free for a little over a month, but she never did get over it. This child had never cried at nap or bedtime. Ever. Since she was 2 weeks old she was sleeping through the night and happy to go to bed for naps or bedtime. When I first took it away, she was okay for 3 or 4 days, but for the last month she has bawled everytime she has been put to bed. She is scared in her room suddenly and doesn't want me to leave. If Matt put her to bed, it was the same thing. Last night I got one of her nuks that I had stored (that wasn't sent to the fairy), and I gave it to her. Immediately she calmed down. I knew that I'd have a week or maybe two of her being a little upset, but since it has gone on for a month, I think that I'm going to let her have one for a little longer. She doesn't have any other comfort object, so I guess her nuk is it for now. I'm ready for it to go, but not if it is going to traumatize her for this long.
The boys were not like this. After 2 or 3 days, they were fine and never asked about it again. I'll try again later.
Didn't mean to hijack.....I just wish it was going as well with Wyndser as it is with Abby. 
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Parker, Wyndser, and Carson....................Wyndser (in blue) with her cousin
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