Grocery cart cover would be my first choice.
I also would have to say his vibrating bouncy seat.

1. retractable baby gate. its worth every penny

2. wipes

3. universal car seat "frame" strollers

4. velcro shoes

5. floation "all in one" swimsuit things

Definatley Diapers and the swing!!!!

I am with you diaposable diapers for sure...
and the pacifer... AND Thank goodness for baby formula too

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Swing, bouncy seat and stroller. I wouldn't have wanted to do without those 3 things. Oh and I liked my boppy!

I would have died with my 3rd ds had I not had a Bumbo. He hated the swing that the other 2 loved.

Disposable diapers were a must as is Butt Paste.

Oh hands down it was the jumparoo ( exacauser that has bungee cords on the side that they can jump in ) my dd loved that thing. I would be holding her and when we would walk into the room where it was she would start bouncing.

Second it would be the boppy pillow, when I was trying to feed the baby and 3 year old would want me to read or snuggle it was the best thing.

The swing! It always calmed them down allowed me to get things around the house done. So sad when they outgrew it!

Disposable diapers YES!

Make sure to use glass bottles if you heat the milk in the bottle.

Study Warns Of Plastic Baby Bottle Safety - ConsumerNews Story - KTVU San Francisco (Last paragraph talks about warming in plastic.)

Toxics Fact Sheet - Environment California

disposable diapers were my first thought
spill proof snack cups
stroller

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