WEll DH and I got into a bit about everythign that was going on. He only has a car charger so we couldn't talk on the phone just the computer.
WEll he said that he was going out. I said ................i thought you weren't going out? Then DD started running a bad fever. I couldn't find the tylenol so i asked hi;m if he knew where it was..........he said no, didn't even ask what was wrong with DD and said "i have to go the guys are here" and got off the computer. Since he was the one driving, he could have been charging his phone this whole time, but it is stilll turned off. I am big ole pregnant, DD is sick and no call or anything to check on us. I have tried his cell a ton of times, sent him a ton of messages online and nothing. So it is now three in the morning and still no word (this all happened at seven). Finally i thought that maybe he just went back to hotel and crashed since we were fighting and he was thinking he would give me the silent treatment. WELL..........I just called the hotel (did soem research he didn't ever give me the number) and he isn't in his room. AT THREE????
So i don't know if i should be worried or pissed. I can't sleep because I can't imagine where he could be unlesss it is somewhere i don't want him. Bars close, nothing is even open.
What do i do?????

I'm sorry

I'm not sure where he's at but is it possible they all went out to eat afterwards? Because we used to do that- hit perkins or some 24 hour place after the bars.

Otherwise maybe one of the other guys got really trashed and he's dealing with that.

I would leave him another message online to call you asap and also, if possible, call the hotel and leave a message for him there.

You have every right to be upset with you being pregnant and your dd not feeling well. He should have his cellphone on him or at least call to check up because what if you went into labor?!?

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it is 6:00 and still no word! i am getting really worried and upset!!! Anybody in or near San Antonio hear about anthing in the news or anything? i swear as soon as i hear from him and know he isn't hurt i am going to murder him!

I completely understand your worry. But maybe just maybe when he gets home reverse the roles a little to teach him a lesson thats the only thing that woould work for my hubby. I understand that your pregos and all but maybe you should tell him a friend called you last night and you have made plans to go out for the night one more time before baby comes. But leave it at that dont tell him any more and then crash at your friends house dont call dont answer your cell even if he calls a million times. I know this is probably not what you want to hear but honestly he has no right to leave you with all the responsibilities plus being prego and having a sick kid at home. You could go in labor at anytime and I think it would kill him if he missed it. But I am the type of person who will teach hard lessons to prove my point. Also when you do hear from him try to stay calm and act like nothing went on and just say so did you haqve fun ok thats good now I have to go lol gotta take care of the kids and then throw out there oh I had about 10 contractions last night but didnt call you cause I didnt want to bother you I know that sounds mean but maybe a hard lesson is what he needs.

I would definately do that, BUT i have no friends here, all i have is his family, and they are no help at all! He knows that i have no friends, so that is a no go!
I called the hotel and explained that our child was sick and asked them to go to his room because the phone wasn't waking him up.
WEll.........he is not in his room. At 7???? Iam so hurt and can't help but think of the worst!!

OMG I am so mad for you!! You can come hide out at my house! He is totally disrespecting you and it is not right.

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OKay..................9 and still nothing. Still never returned to his hotel. Should i start calling hospitals or jails???

Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. What a terrible feeling. He probably just stayed with one of his friends, but that is not excuse to leave you worrying like that. I hope everything works okay. Please give us an update when you have time. Big hugs and saying a prayer for your dd.

I know i am going nuts about this.....but i am getting sick to my stomach.
i just called the law enforcement desk at the base (if he gets picked up even off base they notify them) the man was really nice but they don't have DH. So okay, that is good.
I am going to hold off on the hospitals since the desk would most likely be notified if he was injured as well.
So..............now i just get to hurry up and wait. THere is no reason for him to stay with a friend. They are all staying in the same hotel, so why not just go to his own room.
The only thing that is on my mind now is that he is with another women. I am a freaking mess!!!

Girl, I'd be pulling my hair out by now. The fact that you can type...and it's coherent sentences, is amazing!

I'm sending good vibes your way that this will all work out.

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