Everything is changing around here. We are changing jobs, and income levels. And insurance. I am just learning about health insurance, as we have always had military insurance and it was FREE and EASY. Turns out not all insurances are like that....

We have lost our insurance through the military. DH is still active duty, (working 6 days a week, no less) but they are breaking up his orders every month so that they do not have to give us insurance.
In September he is going to be working a lot less, and off orders, so he can go back to school.
We are basically going to be cutting our income in HALF. even with me working Full time, and him part time. I am back at work in a full time position (yea, that per diem thing didn't last long...) and I am eligible for insurance, at quite a cost though.
I have a few options, and I am looking for some input.
1. I can get insurance for our family, at $417.00 a month. This is A BIG chunk of my check, and really would make things IMPOSSIBLE as far as money goes.
2. Take the higher deductible insurance at 30.00 a month. with all well visits covered and shots and such. no hospital stays or er visits. no prescriptions. basically if something big happened we would be in a HARD place.
3. Attempt to get state insurance. I think we just might qualify as a family of five, but I have no idea. It is something I might look into.
TIA