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Old 08-14-2007, 08:35 AM   #61
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This could have been easealy resolved with a PM. The moderators are the only one who agree with the OP, how funny. I was really happy with this site and even recomended it to many of my friends, but have my doubts now.
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Old 08-14-2007, 08:43 AM   #62
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I hate to ask, because I'll sound like a moron, but WTH is an IP address and how do you even see that? I have no idea....sorry if that's off topic.
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Old 08-14-2007, 08:52 AM   #63
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Yep I am back again

OK - I have to Say this from a Newbie Point of view -

First of all the Mods have stated Again and again - that they were Pm'd by other members in regards to this situation -

so possibly the Mods are mainly ones with the Guts to step Forward and Ask all the questions that were on other peoples minds too ?

I don't think this should be against them -

Secondly - The original OP maybe should've done this Accusation in private - maybe - it doesn't matter now - It is already done.
so the Only thing I Would think now that can be Done is For me&my2girls to step Forward and explain herself - and we can all move on ....
when People get Defensive and say they dont owe Anyone any Explanation - is what makes them look more Guilty- So Maybe thats why else People are wondering.
Or else maybe she will be So Offended she will never come back - then we also can move on ....

Again - I don't really Know too much about her situation - other than I thought she was very upbeat and Calm how she handled all she Was Given recently .
OK I am shocked at how easy going she seems - I would have been Freaking out if I were just PG with Twins - But thats me....

OK - Lastly -
I do not think this Board is One Bit Cliquey -
And I have been to many Boards over the years

The OP And all the Mods are Being Nice they are Just asking Questions that they are Probably getting bugged by other members about -
so maybe they want to get to the bottom of This - out in the open


ALL JMO - of course
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Old 08-14-2007, 08:55 AM   #64
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taylyn....your post completely, 100% hit ALL the nails on the head. VERY nicely said. As a mod and a long time member, I totally agree with you.
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Old 08-14-2007, 08:58 AM   #65
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only mods see the IP addresses of everybody on here....

I think that is sad to have been brought out like this....who cares if things are not as they seem...just pray for her and go on......I feel that she is overwhelmed.....and needs our prayers right now.....just because you think something you dont have to post it all the time....I am sure there are others on here that you read and think right...come on...your telling us a big one....do you post it......why post something that you KNOW is going to be sooo hurtful.....instead of biting our tongue on here I think we need to keep the fingers off the key board ......I like to know how you tell where there ip is coming from....I am mod on another board..not a mommy board so dont worry...lol...I like to know to help better check out those who do try to cause trouble on our board


CHEER UP ME&MY2GIRLS.....not every agrees with what was posted...or I should say how it was handled
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Old 08-14-2007, 09:08 AM   #66
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Originally Posted by taylyn
Yep I am back again

OK - I have to Say this from a Newbie Point of view -

First of all the Mods have stated Again and again - that they were Pm'd by other members in regards to this situation -

so possibly the Mods are mainly ones with the Guts to step Forward and Ask all the questions that were on other peoples minds too ?

I don't think this should be against them -

Secondly - The original OP maybe should've done this Accusation in private - maybe - it doesn't matter now - It is already done.
so the Only thing I Would think now that can be Done is For me&my2girls to step Forward and explain herself - and we can all move on ....
when People get Defensive and say they dont owe Anyone any Explanation - is what makes them look more Guilty- So Maybe thats why else People are wondering.
Or else maybe she will be So Offended she will never come back - then we also can move on ....

Again - I don't really Know too much about her situation - other than I thought she was very upbeat and Calm how she handled all she Was Given recently .
OK I am shocked at how easy going she seems - I would have been Freaking out if I were just PG with Twins - But thats me....

OK - Lastly -
I do not think this Board is One Bit Cliquey -
And I have been to many Boards over the years

The OP And all the Mods are Being Nice they are Just asking Questions that they are Probably getting bugged by other members about -
so maybe they want to get to the bottom of This - out in the open


ALL JMO - of course

Taylyn, Thank you. You so totally hit that nail on the head.

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I like to know how you tell where there ip is coming from....
On this board, there is a little computer icon next to each person's name. We can click on that and it tells us the IP of each person on the board and usually where they are located to get thier IP. If someone is posting somewhere other than thier usual spot, the IP will tell us that.
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Old 08-14-2007, 09:15 AM   #67
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I think this post was just plain mean, and it serves as an excellent reminder to me to not share ANY personal details of my life on this board. I can talk about toys, or exercise, when to give up pacifiers, etc., but I won't be talking anymore about anything personal. I think TracyB's response was great.
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Old 08-14-2007, 09:17 AM   #68
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Wow! I'm not quite sure what to think either. I tend to be pretty skeptical about things but on the other hand, I've had that crazy, almost unbelievable life at times.
  • My twins were born in 1997 and did die. Our dog was hit by a car about a month later and died.
  • My dad had open heart surgery and a stroke that evening while in the CCU and my mom's sister pulled to the side of the road on her way up to the hospital that night and died in her car.
  • My son is in Iraq and had a rough week, losing 4 fellow soldiers in his battalion in a house explosion very close to where he was, my dad had another stroke this week (it was thankfully pretty mild) and it would have been my twins 10th birthday.

I just plug along in life trying to handle what is thrown at me and often wonder if something about my personality attracts drama. When I actually put it into writing, it leans toward the bizarre and unbelievable but sadly, all true. Sometimes when someone asks how I'm doing, I just say fine because even saying it all out loud seems too much.

Me&My2girls, I don't know if the stories being told are true or not but I'll lend my prayers for healing either way asking that God gives you what He knows you need.
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Old 08-14-2007, 09:19 AM   #69
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On this board, there is a little computer icon next to each person's name. We can click on that and it tells us the IP of each person on the board and usually where they are located to get thier IP. If someone is posting somewhere other than thier usual spot, the IP will tell us that.
Ha, cool! Sorry to not continue the drama, but can you tell whether I'm at work or at home? LIke that kind of thing, or is it a city based thing, or a computer based thing? I'm a computer dummy sometimes, so that all seems magical to me! Tell me where I am, please, please please....lol
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Old 08-14-2007, 09:31 AM   #70
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I wasn't the one that posted under the SS id, but I did bring up the list. Yes I am a mod and yes people are asking ?'s.

From who I have talked to she is not answering pm's so that is why I brought my list out in the open. So that answers that question on why mine wasn't handled privately. I want to get to the bottom of this. I don't intend to be mean. If I am proven wrong I intend to apologize profusely, but right now I am very very skeptical. Ip addresses show me everything. She was never near the Twin Cities and is not in CA right now. I feel like I have been made a fool of asking people to pray for her and her family.
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