I haven't Worn a Bikini in years -
Partly because I am NOT the weight that I Think Constitutes bikini Wearing - And I also think well , Women Look kind of silly out in Public places with their Kids , while Sporting a Cute little Bikini
I have a Friend who is Thin And Looks good -
still it Just doesn't look Tasteful IMO - When I See pics of her and her kids on the Beach and She is in a Bikini

I don't Know why - Her Bikinis are Newer and she is thin-
I guess I think Bikinis Are meant for Kidless Girls under 25
Just my personal Fetish - I don't know - No Offense to Anyone -
I personally
Love Tankinis - I think they are made for a Mom with kids in tow....
And If I am feeling Particularly Big Thighed - I sport a Swim Skirt or Shorts over my Bathing Suit -
I too Don't want to miss out on fun with my kids -
But I can't seem to get over the Embarresment of having my Butt and thighs exposed in some Instances -