It helps so much to hear others have the same problem. alaska-mama-of-2 I would be a perfect candidate to take office. Don't get me wrong I love my husband. He does work hard. But it seems for the past year he always has some issue. some sort of body pain, frustrated, headache, usually the fact that he doesn't like his coworkers. So me the people pleaser that I am keep putting my and the kids need to the back burner and try to make it a nice home for him to come to. But in doing that I gave up me. So i guess I created a monster. I hate bringing it up to him because he is so defensive and it ends up making me feel worse. Like the kids and I are an inconvenience. He came home yesturday after this rough night and was being so sweet, doing everything he could even playing with the kids till bedtime. I'm sure it is short lived. We never argue cause I really don't think I know how to get through. Thanks everyone.

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