I posted earlier today in the relationships forum about how I'm a little worried about our relationship. I included how he NEVER does any housework, and has been complaining about the house, among other things.

Well, for the first time in at least 3 months he's helping me. He came home, told me not to worry about dinner tonight, then started laundry. I, of course, freaked, cause when he does laundry or anything around the house he obviously feels that I'm incompetent, and is in a pi**y mood for a week cause he felt he "had to help me". So I told him not to worry about it, I've got it, and started to take over. He told me he's got it (not in the usual sarcastic voice, in a friendly tone) and not to worry about it. I'm scared now. Either he feel guilty of something, or he's reading my posts... again.

We got into an argument about it a month or so ago. We had been in a fight, and he pulled up my posts to throw things I had posted about him in my face. I told him it was private, my little release since I have no friends to confide in. He told me anything I post on a public site is not private and he had every right to read it. I had been kinda careful about what I post since, cause I had my suspicions..... I'm pretty sure today was the first time I really talked about him in an open post since.

Now I don't know if this is a weird conicidence, or he's really reading all my posts... If he is, then he'll read this one too... What to do...?? what to do....??

This is why I am glad my dh doesn't even know how to turn the computer on!

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lol I wish my dh was reading mine.. maybe our sex life would get better... Is there anything really you can do... I mean you want to express how you feel to us... there is nothing wrong about that everyone needs to vent. I am sure that later on he realized you were just VENTING about stuff going on a few months ago and has maybe realized it is a good thing that you vent on here to all of us. HOPEING.....

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My dh, no matter how curious, would never invade my privacy like that. Glad he's helping you out, and seems to be in a happier mood though. That's good! Right?

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Hey be happy that hes doing things around the house.

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I would still talk to him about how you feel!!!

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My DH read my posts a long time ago and we fought over it
cause I had posted some stuff about my past it was not pretty at all. I was so pissed off!!!! But I just watch myself now!!!

Sadly!!! good luck

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hubby has no idea how to get on any of these boards...he justknows how to bring up ebay.....::

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CHOOSE TODAY WHOM YOU WILL SERVE!!!

My dh has read my posts many times, Pisses me off. I'm careful about what I write now. However he told me recently how he understands and won't read anymore, then the other day after that post about if you feel useless, I wrote how I feel under-appreciated. The next day he wast telling me how much he appreciates me and how wonderful I am. conicidence? I think not.

Change your password to something he won't guess

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A woman is like a teabag. You never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water.-Eleanor Roosevelt

My DH posted for me when I was sick and in the Hospital but
if he is checking my posts He has yet to show it.
He hasn't improved any behaviors

Sorry you have to deal with this-
either its a Control Issue or he is guilty of something....
like keeping you away from civilization and human contact

It seems like a issue of Trust thrown in as well.

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