Through your dh's, sig other's, bf's eyes.....

Doozer · **Through your dh's, sig other's, bf's eyes.....**

Can you describe yourself the way your dh, sig other or bf sees you? (focusing on only the good ladies!!)

treehugger · 09-14-2006, 01:34 PM

Wow! That's a tough one! I'm very hard on myself. Dh makes fun of me and says that I flog myself over everything (picture munks with floggers over bad thoughts...lol)

I'll say he loves me because....

I'm a good mom
a very good wife!
He loves that I am not a jealous person
He laughs at me for, but loves me for my childlike innocents. I see things in a very "fairytale" way.
He appreciates (and puts up with) my neuratic obsesion with nutrician because he knows I study this stuff because I love my family and want them healthy (and I'm a darn good cook!)
He thinks it's cute that I love animals more than most people, but he rolls his eyes at me most times.
He'd never say it to anyone else, but I know he likes that I'm quiet and innocent during the day, but not so much at night <wink>

mom23kj · 09-14-2006, 01:37 PM

Christy, that's a tough one! I know my DH sees the woman he loves, beyond that I have no clue. He has said that when he sees me, he sees home, but I haven't the foggiest how he sees me physicaly.

Starlite · 09-14-2006, 01:50 PM

My dh appreciates and respects that fact that I am very frugal with money. He also likes the fact that I'm a SAHM and he thinks that's the best thing I can do for our dd. He thinks I'm smart and doesn't like the way I put myself down in the intelligence department.

I don't think of myself in this way at all, but my dh thinks I'm hot, sexy, and gorgeous. He has vision problems however, so I'm sure it's not registering in his brain how I actually look. LOL

JoeNKatesMom · 09-14-2006, 02:25 PM

This is a good post. My DH seems to think that every guy is after me. Not in a jealous way but in a sweet "You don't know you;re beautiful way." Beleive me when I say, I'm not all that. He appreciates that I'm low maintenance and that I am extremely thrifty. on the flip side, I am stubborn and forgetful.

Happymom · 09-14-2006, 03:13 PM

According to my dh I am the sexiest, most beautiful woman in the world (see why I love him so!) I think he thinks I am a good mother, though sometimes I am not strict enough.

Doozer · 09-14-2006, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Happymom

According to my dh I am the sexiest, most beautiful woman in the world (see why I love him so!) I think he thinks I am a good mother, though sometimes I am not strict enough.

You are.....both accounts

Doozer · 09-14-2006, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by JoeNKatesMom

This is a good post. My DH seems to think that every guy is after me. Not in a jealous way but in a sweet "You don't know you;re beautiful way."

That is so sweet...and doesn't it feel good to know he DOES think that way? You're so lucky!

Doozer · 09-14-2006, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Starlite

I don't think of myself in this way at all, but my dh thinks I'm hot, sexy, and gorgeous. He has vision problems however, so I'm sure it's not registering in his brain how I actually look. LOL

You're funny! I bet up close and personal he has ZERO vision problems. That is so sweet of him!

Doozer · 09-14-2006, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by mom23

Christy, that's a tough one! I know my DH sees the woman he loves, beyond that I have no clue. He has said that when he sees me, he sees home, but I haven't the foggiest how he sees me physicaly.

Go and ask him!