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Old 05-02-2008, 09:47 PM   #1
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When us parents are waiting in the foyer for school to let out I've noticed a woman just giving me death looks. Literally if looks could kill. Now I've never talked to this woman let alone do I even know her from Adam. My friends have noticed this and ask "what's her problem" and I think I finally figured it out. This crazy woman knew my dh 20 years ago and evidently they didn't get along. So what would you do? Would you just continue to ignore her or would you say something? One day I stared her back down. I so badly want to say something smart like "yes I know I'm beautiful but didn't your mom teach you it's rude to stare", but I think this woman might be off her rocker. I want to say 20 years ago my dh didn't like you, did you need therapy to get over it. It's to the point where it's almost comical. One day the group of ladies that I talk to all stared her down. You know me, I want to say something, but I don't think it would be worth it. Obviously she has issues.
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Old 05-02-2008, 10:16 PM   #2
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Hmmm...sounds like she needs some therapy. I wouldn't say anything...it's just not worth it. Summer is just around the corner and maybe she'll be "the crazy lady on another street" corner next year.
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Old 05-02-2008, 10:38 PM   #3
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I'd "kill her with kindness" maybe walk up to her and say "Hi, i don't think we've met, I'm deemom" and just see what she does/says. Just make sure that your friends are keeping an eye on things though, in case she goes psycho on you!
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Old 05-03-2008, 02:47 AM   #4
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Hmmm...I think I'd just smile politely and look away. Take the high road.
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Old 05-03-2008, 06:34 AM   #5
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This would be so not worth the energy...ignore her she'll go away.
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Old 05-03-2008, 07:45 AM   #6
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Hmmm...I think I'd just smile politely and look away. Take the high road.
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Old 05-03-2008, 07:51 AM   #7
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on a bi$%#y day i might just say" what do i have a booger???" on a normal day i would not pay her any attention she obviously has some issues.
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I'd "kill her with kindness" maybe walk up to her and say "Hi, i don't think we've met, I'm deemom" and just see what she does/says. Just make sure that your friends are keeping an eye on things though, in case she goes psycho on you!
I agree with Bonnie. If you really feel the NEED to say something, go this way. But if you can hold back, just ignore her. I would probably have to say something, even if I was faking nice, lol.
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Old 05-03-2008, 11:35 AM   #9
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Totally ignore her. Let the hatred in her soul be her problem, not yours.
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Old 05-03-2008, 11:43 AM   #10
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I would ignore her!!!
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