It Gets Better-Spears parents ADORE...... - Page 2

carlitasway · 12-19-2007, 04:49 PM

Oh give me a break, 16 is not a mature age to become a mom. Yes she has money but that doesn't mean she has the mental abilities to care for a child. Children are very rewarding yet extremely hard work. I'm hoping a nanny will take over. There is no good reason to be a teen mom today with all the protection out there. If she were to log on I'd tell her that, too. Reality is a b*tch becoming a teen mom will teach her soon enough. Also, looking at the rest of her family I can't say I have high hopes for this one. She made a stupid decision. Her life will be forever changed and there is no good excuse for it.

carlitasway · 12-19-2007, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by katrinak

Wait am I missing something??? You would have YOUR son's "you know what" nailed to the wall? I didn't think so.

I tell you what if my son did that, I wouldn't pat him on the head with support.

aliadam · 12-19-2007, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by carlitasway

Yeah, I'd be adoring him with my fists and a statutory rape charge if that were my daughter.

YUP!!!

BlueJay · 12-19-2007, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by araefinn

So am I missing something?? If he is 18 or 19 and she is only 16, isnt that like against the law to have sex with a minor??? I am just confused. Couldnt someone press charges on him?

I heard on the news that HER parents would have to press charges since she is a minor and he is not.

katrinak · 12-19-2007, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by carlitasway

I tell you what if my son did that, I wouldn't pat him on the head with support.

Maybe not at first, but what is done, is done. I applaud the girl for not having an abortion. She could have easily done so.

jenmose · 12-19-2007, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by taylyn

I think statuatory rape law in our state is under 16.

I also don't think that would answer anyones Problems

I don't think I would want my Grandchilds daddy in jail knowing I put him there. UNLESS he was a Sick pervert who hurt my child

As far as JL's Parents adoring the father ..... would you rather see them hate him?

I guess alot of you don't have teens yet.

I don't Know , I think if this happened to my DD I would be there for them.

AMEN! Of course we would all be disappointed and go through all the stages of grief...but what are they really suppose to do now? The damage is done people!

carlitasway · 12-19-2007, 05:27 PM

Just because the damage is done doesn't mean they shouldn't suffer consequences. I wonder if Mama Spears thought the way some of you do........

jenmose · 12-19-2007, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by carlitasway

16 not of legal age
19 IS
PERIOD

Sorry won't feel bad.

No one is asking or telling you to feel bad. It is great this world is made up of different opinions.
I just hope your children are never walking in her shoes......

jenmose · 12-19-2007, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by carlitasway

Just because the damage is done doesn't mean they shouldn't suffer consequences. I wonder if Mama Spears thought the way some of you do........

I am sure, because we are the bad moms of the world, right?
C'mon............

carlitasway · 12-19-2007, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by jenmose

No one is asking or telling you to feel bad. It is great this world is made up of different opinions.
I just hope your children are never walking in her shoes......

Me too because if they think they are getting praise and support, they have another thing coming. This goes if dd gets knocked up or ds knocks someone up. That sh*t don't fly gracefully in my house.