I am married 5 yrs now.. but I feel like the single mommy.. I cook, clean, bathe, feed ,etc.. everything for the house and the kids alone. dh is only home on the weekends mainly . he comes in goes to bed and gets up goes to work during the week so we dont see him.. its annoying.. i hate his schedule and feeling alone all the time.. but theres nothing I can do... and then on the weekends he needs his time and soo i handle everything then too

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Hi my name is Debbie,LSUmom.I am just getting around .This is my first day on the post and I ran into your post.I wanted to reply b/c I was thinking the same thing to myself about my dh not to long ago.That is an awefull feeling of feeling unappriciated.It's like your invisible and noone sees everything you do.So..you know what I did?..I quit for 2-3 days..you know how you see commercials on t.v where the dh walks in and the house is a disaster?? well I took that Idea and ran with it..LOL So when they get ungratefull i go on "strike" I like to call it.granted my house is a wreck, and it drives me insane...but after a coiple days of them having to wash a fork or clean a dish to eat....they get the point.
Sooo..thats my advice to you.I hope you take it in concideration..
Nice to meet you hun.Hope we will keep in touch. Good luck to you.

I finally got in!It took me awhile.But I am here and happy to meet everyone.
I just got divorced after being seperated for 4 yrs and now I am in another relationship.Me and my daughter moved in with my bf and his 2 kids 2 yrs ago,and he works all day and comes home and sits at this computer all night every night.I take care of his kids and mine.Football games beta club meetings dr appointments I do it all.He just sits here,and says"thats your job"...... No sir! I didn't sign up to be a nanny!!!Isn't thatw hat we all feel like?