My exhusband is getting remarried next weekend. It really doesnt bother me at all in fact in a way I am glad that way I know for sure he will leave me alone. LOL.

I was wondering whose ex is or has gotten remarried. Did it bother you at all and how did the kids do with it? My kids seem to be fine with it. They are both in the wedding. My DS is upset because he has to wear a top hat. I almost want to ask my ex for pictures of the kids just so I can see what they looked like. I love to see them dressed up and I have never seen my son in a tux. I think he will look very handsome.

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my ex remarried.I was glad too because he would quit flirting with me all the time.But that only lasted about a year.The last 5 years(he's still married) he has started flirting with me again.When i say flirting,i mean.....staring me up and down,making suggestive comments to me,etc.My sons are fine w/him being married.His wife treats them good.That's all that matters to me.

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James isnt at the remarrying stage yet but he has found a new lady! She was part of their famly social circle years ago apparently. She is close friends with one of his sisters,

Tadhg hasnt met her formally (He hasnt stayed with James since i last dont know when, his choice) Conor has and finds her pleasant enough.

I gather there are stay overs involved but she isnt there full time yet. Im actually happy for him he as met someone else and I thought if he did he would leave me alone. That bit hasnt happened yet.

If she is who I think she is then I did meet her years ago, her name is not a common one , eitherway I havent met her since she became a part of James life. I have no major wish to and would be polite if I did.

However the first thing Ill ask her is if James told the truth (he may not have) that she is horrified by my child rearing of the boys and equally horrified by the educational plans for Conor,

Now if that bit is true I may not be so polite!!!!

Anne

My ex remarried. I was glad as I really wanted him to find someone & be happy. I was not thrilled with his choice. Turns out the ended up in marriage counseling within a few years & stayed in counseling until he died a few months ago, so I guess it wasn't the easiest of marriages. We didn't have kids together tho, so that made it easier.

I would, love, love, love DH ex to re-marry...she's so much better when she's 'with' someone. I have no idea if my ex re-maarried, we stopped all communication about a month after the divorce, but I wish him the best if he did.

Can you ask him for pics of the kids that day? I know he isn't the easiest to deal with (dance recitial) or could you take pics of the kids before hand? I gave SS mom pics of SS from when Dh and I got married...we didn't dress up or anything, but he looked cute.

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My ex doesnt even have a girlfriend, I think he did a while ago by my son hasnt said anything about her for a while.
I may be the one that gets remarried. When he found out I had a bf he was jealous. My son must have been talking about his on one of those days he visits his dad. I got a phone call asking so whos Steve?
It was his idea to have the divorce so he just has to deal with it.

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My ex isplanning on getting married sometime in the near future. He has never said anything about it, but the kids have and I know his gf bought a dress.

It doesn't really bother me so far, in fact, I wish that he would just get it over with. The kids are ok with it, they don't talk much about the gf much at all. The thing that would really hurt me is if he married her and then she stayed at home....that would really hurt me, and he knows it.. I don't think if it ever happened, it would be his idea... I was and am the breadwinner between the two of us and I'm only a secretary!

I wonder are we more bothered because it seems they can pick up their lives and find partners easier than we can because we have the responsibilities and also not the time to go and meet people who might be in our lives?


I know that thought occassionally crosses my mind

Anne

My exhusband is getting ready to remarry, and I am pretty pleased because I know he will leave me alone. The only thing that bothers me is the fact that now he refers to his last marriage (me) as a sad experience. We didn't have kids together, but it still affected me and his kids who were then (5,6,8) because I miss them, and they didn't even get told it was happening. He made me and my ds move out while they were out of state with their mom. (He had an affair and was afraid I guess that I would tell them).

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I think that might be a little bit of it, Anne. With my ex, he started dating this girl about three months after we split up...they were 'talking' online before that.

It is scary to me to even think about getting married again. I sure don't want to make all the same mistakes and go through another divorce....yet it would be nice to have a partner you can spend the rest of your life with.