My 13 yr old dd is in marching band so Monday nights and Friday nights are taken up as well as practice every morn. at 7:30 a.m. My 9 yr old dd is in girl scouts which is not too time consuming. I don't want them in too much stuff. I want them to just enjoy being kids and relaxing.

my daughter is 9 and been on a bowling league for 2 years. she was a gs for the last 5 but this yr doesnt want to do it any more shes bored with it . so this yr she will do bowling and maybe a afterschool program .