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I feel this way every time my rear-end hits the toilet seat!!!! I swear there is a silent alarm that sounds when I go to use the toilet. My kids can be outside, inside, at the neighbor's house and I sit to potty and here they are!!!!
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Oh I know that feeling all too well. My kids have radar that tells them exactly now is the moment to have a crisis or bug mom for anything b/c she is in the bathroom. But all is not lost. I found the solution to my problem, and now the bathroom at least is mine to enjoy in peace.
I did a study and found out that if I locked the door, a major crisis would erupt.
If I just shut the door and didn't lock it here would come the knocks just to ask a question.
But if I leave the door wide open NOBODY comes to bother me. I can literally sit there for hours and no one comes to visit. Same applies if I want a shower or to take a bath. Everyone carries on as if mom isn't around.
But this only applies to the bathroom. I am still studying what it takes to hide out else where in my home. Would you believe my older kids have even gone as far as to call my cell phone, which I always have in my back pocket to find me. That is so sad!
On a more serious note, I have discovered that at least for my 4 yo dd that the stalking is just her way of making sure I am still here. She is so insecure anyway, but this girl will go to another room and hollar to me that she loves me. If I don't answer she starts to get a little upset. And comes looking for me.
My mom constantly reminds me that tis better to just enjoy it for now, for someday those same kids will be grown up and gone and you will have the peace and quiet you so desperatly wanted and then what? .......well for starters I might be able to hear myself think for the first time in............I can't remember.
