I am talking to my ex last night, because now that school started we are back on our every other weekend schedule. But he was trying to figure out who had them this weekend. I said, well since you had them last weekend, I have them this weekend. (I am thinking how hard is that to figure out )

So, he starts rambling about where they should be, and then says

"I am like you, I want them all the time and every weekend."

What do you suppose he is trying to say with that??

I get paranoid, because he has kept them from me before, (long story, we had rotating custody) BUT I have primary care now, so there isn't anything he can do. But I still get VERY suspicious.

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Well, given what you have told me via e-mails, I would be very suspicious, too. What do you think his new wife thinks? I would be thinking the same thing you are, that is for sure!

It's hard to say exactly what he might mean by that. If he has done some questionable things in the past or kept the kids from you, I would be with you on being suspicious. I would be suspicious if my ex said something like that. Although, with my ex, I would know that something like that said, he is only doing it for show or just to get me riled up.

If there is nothing he can do to take the kids away or change the visitation, then I wouldn't worry about it..

Well, I just said back to him. I will look at a calendar and send you an email. And got off the phone QUICK.

Here is part of the email that I sent addressing that:

"In regards to your comments about wanting them all the time and every weekend. I understand that they are with me more, if you give advanced notice, I have no problems with you picking them up for dinner on occasion. I am sure they would like that. But I would appreciate this NOT being a last minute "thing". Plan accordingly, for instance a week notice would be sufficient. "

I hate to be suspicious, but I can't help it.

Also, my DS said to my DH the other night , MEXW (my ex's wife) wants to live in New York City.

I am just paranoid I am sure, and I am trying not to worry about it.

Here is the other thing.....he hasn't responded to my email yet. Which he usually does right away. Which makes me think he is up to something.

Oh well, you are right though, I can't worry about what I don't know....

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Yeah, I would be suspicious too!! I think your respose was more than fair!

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Never knowing with that brain, but many ((((((((((hugs))))))))))) to you! NYCity? That IS scary and weird. Talk about culture shock!

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