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10-07-2006, 09:31 AM
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Mommysavers Goddess
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My sister is a school secretary. For the real scoop on how a school is, get to know the secretary- she will have info on enrollment, discipline problems, and *especially* what the kids and parents are like. Test scores are important, but your kids will also learn from and pattern themselves on what the other kids are doing. The secretary can tell you things about language, values, dress, problems- things the principal and other parents are not going to be eager to tell you. Also, I think it is very telling that the parents are often wonderful to the principal but HORRIBLE to school staff.
For instance, my sister's school has an all day program for 4 year olds. She tells me that she's had several parents forge birth certificates to get their kids into this program early (it's a free program). Some of these little kids are really little and have trouble riding the bus. They can't get in and out of the seats without help, then they slip and slide in the seats and often fall out into the aisles (there are no seat belts on the bus). She's had to call several parents and tell them their kids are too little to ride the bus; it's a safety issue. She has had parents yell and scream at her over this, even threaten her. She can definitely tell you the pros and cons of her school.
Another person to talk to is the school nurse. She can tell you interesting things that are also important. My local elementary school is thought to be pretty good, but on an average day about 30% of the kids are out sick. I know this because my sister is the school nurse there. Part of this problem is that the building is old and has mold. Kids with asthma really struggle going to school there. I know moms who have had to transfer their kids to other schools just for this reason. Also, in our county, the nurse is not allowed to give certain types of medication to the kids at school. If you have a child that needs medication daily for whatever reason, and it has to be given at a certain time, check on that.
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