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04-09-2008, 11:40 AM
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Step #33: Create Room for What You Want in Life
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Ms. Mommysavers
Last Online: Yesterday 05:33 PM
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Southern MN
Real Name: Kim
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Make Room for New Experiences
Decluttering is more than just getting rid of what you don’t want in your life anymore. It’s about creating room for new things and experiences to enter. What will getting rid of things allow you to do and accomplish? Here are some examples:
• If you want to procure new clients at work, clear out old files and create blank ones for new clients
• If you want to try your hand at writing, try clearing away some old clutter and creating a special new space for you to write
• If you want to learn a new topic, clear away old books that you’re not reading anymore to make space on your shelf for new interests
• Try clearing off your kitchen countertops to make more space for cooking if you want to hone your culinary skills
Decluttering Karma
What goes around comes around. If you want something to enter your life, try giving it away. I know it sounds counterintuitive, but it works. If you want friendship to enter, be a friend. If you want your spouse to be more compassionate, try showing him some compassion. The same principles work with material things. Ever notice how many women become pregnant again as soon as they give away all their baby gear? If you want to improve your wardrobe, donate old clothing to Goodwill. With the empty space you create, the more room there will be for new things and experiences to enter. Try it and you’ll see.
Attract More of What You Want
Just as I tell people that when getting rid of debt they shouldn’t focus on what is bogging them and instead focus on building wealth, the same applies to decluttering. If you focus on the clutter, you’re only seeing half of the equation. When you apply the law of attraction to your decluttering efforts, wouldn't it make sense that if you focus on clutter, that's what you attract into your life? That’s why when some people begin to declutter they are more sensitive to seeing junk all around them. Instead of dwelling on the negative, think about the positive.
Refer back to your vision of what you want your space to look like. Go one step further and imagine what feelings that space will provoke. Really think about the type of positive change you want to see in your space and in your life, and make sure your home reflects that.
Assignment: Review your list of goals. How can you create space for these new experiences to enter your life?
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