I usually host all the get togethers-OK with me. Means no traveling for us and the kids, plus my house is the biggest so it just works better. Which means I get ready and cook all the hot food. I always send home leftovers. I do get left with a lot of veggie tray stuff and cheese and crackers-which always comes in handy for munching later and throwing meals together (casseroles) with my leftovers and what is given to me to keep.

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