I feel a panick attack coming on... please pray

braegan-beads · 07-17-2006, 09:54 AM

does ANYONE need a visitor from Texas for like 2 weeks???

I clean and cook, and am good with helping out, I just need you to buy the plain tickets, 3 total...

the dreaded SIL will be here on Thursday... AUGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't want her here, and I found out she will actually be sleeping here too, so I will see her 24/7 YUCK!!!!

and dh will be at work while she is here so I will be stuck with her and MIL all day until 4:45.. i so know MIL is going to be a big ol'
B while she is here, just like last year, and Im so ready for it.. I mean last year I was so emotionaly drained and tired and stressed she caught me at a bad time, this year, oh I say bring it on Beotch!!!!!

just please pray I don't do anything that will land me in jail...

annemc · 07-17-2006, 10:05 AM

Big hugs Mindy I wish I had the tickets to send you for a break here

But remember what we said in varous posts

1. Ignore her so she cant trip your switches she will be prepared for this so ...spoil her game.

2. kill her..... with kindness not giving in to her but when she says something offensive smile sweetly and walk away DONT ANSWER HER (you will give her a heart attack from frustration if she cant play her games

3. Have St Johns Wort for Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner and Supper then the house will fall in on you and you wont care!!!

Hang in there seriously Mindy your a lady and can rise above her taunts and bad behaviour (plus you will feel so much better when you do)

Big Hugs and your in my thoughts

Anne

Rakshanda · 07-17-2006, 10:07 AM

I on the other had will tell you turn around to face her sideways and then spin around towards her and smack her one!!!!

annemc · 07-17-2006, 10:09 AM

Shanda, Mindy is trying to rise above this:D

Anne

Rakshanda · 07-17-2006, 10:26 AM

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Quote[/b] (annemc @ July 17 2006,11:09)]Shanda, Mindy is trying to rise above this:D

Anne

I know, but sometimes you just really, really, really want to do it!

BB just ignore me, be a lady and rise above it.

momof4PA · 07-17-2006, 10:50 AM

Lock up the sharp objects!!!

Oh, good luck, I'm sure that's going to be a thrill ride!!

ryans_mom10 · 07-17-2006, 11:07 AM

I would say if you have a problem say something right there in a nice way though and straighten it out.You don't want to have your self all worked up the whole time they are here.My self I would ask them to go to a hotel if they can't be nice in my home!!!

braegan-beads · 07-17-2006, 11:13 AM

its not my home, its my MIL's we live with them, so I really don't have a say...

it will be interesting to see where they will sleep, Lord knows Im not giving up my bed, and Im not making Logan sleep on the floor, and my MIL already sleeps on their only couch, so this should be interesting...

either way Im going to try and be nice, and Im planning on alot of stuff to do with the boys so we won't be here during the day. I have free passes to the Zoo, so we will go there and to the splash park which is also free, and I think we will go to the kids museum, which is only 3 dollars per person, but we can spen all day there...

aliadam · 07-17-2006, 11:16 AM

Well what I would do, is try to find something to do so you can go somewhere everyday for a little bit. *Just try to be "out" as much as possible until dh is there to be the buffer. *Find a friend to invite the kids over for a playdate. *Already have a lunch date with friends scheduled. *Have already "promised" the kids to take them to a movie/the library/the pool, etc. *Go grocery shopping, get your hair done, have doctor appts. *Just ANYTHING so you're not stuck in the house with them all day. *Good luck!! *And I agree you need to rise above, esp. while you're still living with mil. *After you move out of your own.....well then all bets are off

Oooop...you posted while I was typing and it sounds like we were thinking alike ....scary thought

braegan-beads · 07-17-2006, 11:45 AM

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Quote[/b] (aliadam @ July 17 2006,12:16)]Well what I would do, is try to find something to do so you can go somewhere everyday for a little bit. Just try to be "out" as much as possible until dh is there to be the buffer. Find a friend to invite the kids over for a playdate. Already have a lunch date with friends scheduled. Have already "promised" the kids to take them to a movie/the library/the pool, etc. Go grocery shopping, get your hair done, have doctor appts. Just ANYTHING so you're not stuck in the house with them all day. Good luck!! And I agree you need to rise above, esp. while you're still living with mil. After you move out of your own.....well then all bets are off

Oooop...you posted while I was typing and it sounds like we were thinking alike ....scary thought

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Quote[/b] ]Oooop...you posted while I was typing and it sounds like we were thinking alike ....scary thought

HOLY FREAKIN COW..... I think I saw some pigs flying by my window... how about you???