I have to agree with 2littleladies!! Big Hugs to you and lots of

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Thanks ladies~I mean it from the heart! Now he is regreting his decision to divorce. He wants to work it out. This is so hard! Ive been trying to be strong and get through this, now he throws me this curve ball. Its tough because I really love this man.
Laurie

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No offense, but what does he think marriage is? If it gets too tough he can just bail b/c Mommy will be there to pick up the pieces? Didn't he JUST tell you (after that dinner) that he wanted to work it out? And then he pulled the divorce card again?
Darlin, I know you love him, but can YOU keep going back and forth like this? Marriage is a commitment not a ping pong game (back and forth, back and forth, the game's not going my way, I quit!) It doesn't work like that.
It really seems to me, and this is just based on an outsiders perspective, he really really likes to be in control, yes? After all, he snoops on here to see what you're up to, that is a control issue. He says divorce, you agree. Control, he says I want to work it out, you re-consider. Control. He says divorce again, and this time you're thinking about really following through....uh-oh, he is NOT in control and it kills him....Uh, let's re-consider this divorce thing (b/c if you stay married chances are you will fall back into the same pattern, and he again, has the upper hand).
If you really want to make this marriage work, I'd really consider some counseling. Just my 2 cents for the penny they're worth.....

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2bears mom you hit it on the head!!! Very well put. Im going through with the divorce, Im not doing the ping pong thing any more. I am taking control of my life from now on!! Whew it feels great!!
Laurie

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Good for you. He's playing games and sounds like a wimp, on top of it all. Can you call your nearest shelter and get advice? I know that others who have no $$ can get help. Please keep us up to date, and prayers are sent.

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Prayer for you been trough a divorce and I know how hard the games can be. Get tough stay strong.Hugs

sound's to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it to. He's using this whole divorce thing as a manipulator. Don't let him toy with you. I am proud of you for standing up and being the bigger adult in all of this. My ex husband did the same thing to me, however it was me that proposed we divorce when I found out he was having an affair and fathered a child before and after we were married. Every time I would start the paper work he would come back begging to try again, and then I would hear about another fling. It was a lousy 11 months...lol. I pray that God gives you not only strength, but the kind of man you deserve. Someone kind, and caring.

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I'm divorced for five years know and I felt the same way as you at the time ( if only we could work it out I love him so much)..... what I realized was i loved him but not myself...how awful that is to love someone so much you forget about yourself..

once you learn you are a great person and start loving yourself you'll realize you do not deserve this and he does not deserve you.........

my hugs and prayers are with you and your family Hugs , ray: :

Prayers for the Lord to lead and guide you in what He has you to do.

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