Ladies does being a Christian mean I'm a door mat and please feel free to walk all over me? Whenever I try to stick up for myself it either does no good or I end up sounding like I have p.m.s. I have someone who owes me money and I worked for that money and deserve it. How can I get the bum to pay?

I would write him a certified letter stating exactly how much he owes me. I would give him a deadline to pay it and then I would file in small claims court. You will win and he will have to pay all of the court costs.

Make sure the letter is very professional and stick straight to all of the details you can prove in court.

Good Luck!

What hurts the most is I considered him a friend not a liar. I went out of my way to watch his kids so he could sleep when he worked crazy hours, when he was sick and just listened to him when he needed someone to talk to. If he would just let down his guard I'm sure he could talk to me. It hurts that he had this plan into place before hand. I would never hurt anyone intentionally like this. Sigh.