**Disclaimer**
MS Mom of the Week is a fun way for us to get to know the Mommysavers members. The Mom of the Week is randomly selected a week in advance of her being featured. I do this so I can contact you, let you know your feature date, and arrange to receive from you a picture of yourself and/or you with your kids to include with the survey. Having a picture included is so we can make it a little more personal and put a name to a face. This is optional of course, as are all the questions being asked. If I don’t hear back from you before your “feature” date, I will randomly select the next person and then get back to you the next week. Newbies to the board as well as regulars are welcome to participate. If you would like to participate please
PM Christy_K_ and we will get you signed up. Mom of the Week will be featured on Monday mornings. We look forward to getting to know you!!
Let’s get started!!!
What is your first name? Catheryn
What are your kids’ names? Sarah (7), Scott (4) and Rachel (1)
Were you ready for motherhood? In a financial sense and in terms of my career, I was ready…DH and I were married for 8 yrs, bought and renovated a house, and completed graduate school before starting a family. However, I don’t really know that anything could have prepared me for the emotional part of motherhood. I never imagined how deeply I could care for someone (and how much I could worry about someone) until I had kids.
Have you ever met someone who has completely inspired you to be a better person? Can you tell us about that relationship and how it has affected you?
I’ve known several people who’ve inspired me to be a better person. But if I had to name just one, it would have to be my mother. She stayed at home until I was in school and then had a demanding career. She was very successful, but I always felt like she put my brother and me first. She also gave her time to community/volunteer activities. I never really appreciated all that she did for me or how good she was at it until I became a mother. Now I find myself asking, “how did she get it all done and do it so well?” She continually encourages me by saying that there is no way to be a perfect mom, but a million ways to be a good one.
Do you have any nervous habits? What are they? I talk too much when I’m nervous!
Did you ever date a guy your parents did not like? Were they right about him? My parents usually liked guys I dated.
What do you want your kids to remember the most about you? I want them to remember that I was there for them and that I listened.
What did you learn the most from your mother? My mom always taught me to do everything with enthusiasm and to give every task your best effort.
How many coupons do you use on a regular basis? What is your best money saving tip? I use way too many coupons to count! My best money saving tip is to make a budget for all of your spending.
How did you find Mommysavers? Have you referred anyone here? Were you referred here? I found MS during one of my many bouts of insomnia (mindless internet surfing session!). I referred a friend to MS, but I don’t think she’s ever posted in the forums.
Out of all the things the members here have offered in terms of advice, support, counsel and criticism, what have you personally benefited from? And do you remember specifically who the member was that offered that advice? It’s hard to name any specific member because there are so many wise, witty women on this board. I enjoy the practical information as well as the humor and personal support this board offers.
Have you ever met a mommysaver? No. However, I live about an hour away from Cheesecake Lady and we keep trying to get together, but it hasn’t worked out.
What is the most romantic thing your dh ever did for you? I can’t think of one specific thing he has ever done…but I’m such a practical girl that the things that I consider “romantic” are the things he does for me every day. He gives all three kids a bath and puts them to bed, he makes beds and changes sheets (because he knows it’s the household chore I like the least), and he regularly gives me time to go to the gym and go out with girlfriends. I feel like he knows what needs to be done to help keep me sane!
Tell us five things you like about yourself. I’m loyal; I can keep a secret; I’m a good listener (unless I’m nervous, then I talk too much!); I’m athletic; I’m reliable.
What hobby do you enjoy the most? What got you started on it? How would you rate yourself? Can you show us a picture of your proudest piece of work? I don’t really have any hobbies….other than reading.
How many frogs did you kiss before you found Mr. Right? Was he worth the wait? I was 18 years old and a freshman in college when I met DH, so I really didn’t have to wait too long.
What is your favorite genre of music? Who is your favorite group? Have you ever seen them in concert? My music tastes are pretty varied and eclectic. I don’t really have a favorite group. The best concert I ever attended was an Elton John concert.
List three things you have on your Life List; things you would like to accomplish before you leave this world. I would like to have a meaningful career (I don’t plan on returning to my pre-SAHM career); I would like to become a grandparent (no rush on this one!); and I would like to run a half marathon.
Which room in your house best reflects your personality? My family room.
What do you see your children growing up to be like? What career path would they choose? I have no idea what career path my children will choose. Right now, Sarah says she’s going to be a celebrity and Scott wants to be a quarterback. I want my children to grow up to be really nice people who put people before things and believe that they can make the world a better place.
Is there something we would never guess about you? Some kind or quirk you have no one close to you knows about. (C’mon tell us!!!!) I am very silly...and until this moment the only people who really knew about it were my kids!
Are there words you live by? What are they? There is a quote by Martin Luther King, Jr. that I have always liked: “We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love.”