I am a bit anal, so if that answers your question . . . .
At one time, I found what percentage of your income should go for housing (and all that entails -- taxes, insurance, repairs, mortgage, electricity, heat), transportation, food (I separate out eating out but leave it in the food category), supplies, health, clothing, entertainment, personal insurance (this I use for credit cards . . . .), charity, and savings and other. I have lines under these headings for the details, like entertainment paper, magazines, books, boy scouts, shooting, scrapbook, office, TV, Netflix, internet).
I have a line for total monthly income (I keep track of this on a separate list), then total expenses, and then the difference (in black if it's to the good, in RED if it's negative).
Then, I have a separate list titled Specific Spending where I put items in certain categories -- like buying a vacuum cleaner goes under Household Maintenance, gifts and Christmas gifts go under Christmas, I list every date, amount, and restaurant we frequent in a month in the Eating Out category. The dog has a category. And, I list every Misc. item too. Clothing has a list. This is dated and has the amount of each item.
After a while, it becomes very telling . . . . We cut way back on out eating out after I saw what we were spending!
In case your interested, here are the percentages I use:
Housing: 24%
Health: 6%
Clothing: 3%
Food: 14%
Transportation: 17%
Supplies: 3%
Entertainment: 5%
Personal Insurance: 11%
Savings and others: 13%
Charity: 4%
After you get it all set up, it really isn't hard to manage! It helped us live within our means because we could see what was happening to our money and make adjustments.
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