I hear you on the Stressing Over Money ....
I swear Its Impossible ......
We Should Be Nowhere Near Worrying about money - If you Look at our Annual income...
Still WTH???
I really can't Figure this Get ahead thing out with Kids and One Income....
No matter What .... Something Always comes up - That Requires money,,,,
Like if we Live way Below our means For 3 Months and are Doing well....
Then BAM - Our house and Car Both Need major work....
Or we're hit with a Huge Dental or medical bill....
So there goes that extra Cusion of cash ....
I enjoy Spending money on a Regular basis- I will admit

I am trying so hard to Knock that out.
Still I don't Spend thousands or anything - And I Do Cut back on certain things in General So I feel like my shopping habits shouldn't Put that much strain on our finances - and We Rarely use Credit ....
It just seems like there will Never be a Safe Worry free PLace until All the kids are grown and we have 2 Good incomes.