Being an only parent, it has been a challenge.
My ex committed suicide in 2001, leaving me with one starting college and 2 still in high school. Shocked and devastated, we took the challenge head on. Don't even think "FRUGAL" could describe our lifestyle at that point in life! Even though my daughter had scholarships that paid for school, it still left other needs to be met. And having one coming behind her in 3 years, I knew I had my work cut out for me (along with coupons and rebates!)
The times were tough, but we all kicked in and prevailed. My daughter took on the challenge and obtained full academic scholarships throughout college and law school and went to both on full scholarship. FASTWEB.COM was a constant and still is for scholarships for the other two. She graduates in May from University of Virginia Law School and has secured a job starting at $175,000

>>> what a payoff after struggling all these years! I AM PROUD! not only of her future, but of what she accomplished getting there.
My son in college has been in special education classes since second grade (dyslexic and ADHD) so I took on the challenge of making sure his education was complete. I made sure any program that was there by law for him was used to the full advantage. If he was allowed special services that my tax dollars paid for, I utilized them. He graduated with his diploma...didn't want to drop out and get a GED like so many told him to do. That in itself was worth more than I can ever put in the bank!
My son in high school already has scholarships working. You can NEVER start TOO EARLY!
Me? I made ends meet by buying only on sale, clipping coupons, rebates, cutting our monthly bills every where I could. I found an opportunity after looking for a fundraiser for my granddaughter to raise money for sports. Researched it for weeks, because I couldn't afford to be scammed. Turned out to be the best "chance" I have ever taken.
My home and car are now paid for, I still work as a paralegal part-time and work my business. I am slowly replacing my "career" as a paralegal with my business that I love.
Would we change anything? Only one...they miss their dad beyond words - but outside of that...we all realize that without the challenges we faced, we wouldn't be the survivors we are today.
We all have this motto on our walls in our homes, bedrooms and dorms -
Challenges make life interesting ~~~ Overcoming them make life worthwhile! 