My husband handles the overall budget and investment accounts, and he keeps me updated. He the one that actually pays most of the bills, though I pay for all the kids activities, sports, camps, preschool, etc. I handle the household budget.
This is exactly our situation. I could have typed that post word for word, bb.
I take care of the bills and the money end, he has no idea where everything goes and how much! but he is the more anxious one, so it is better he doesnt know sometimes!