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07-25-2006, 02:13 AM
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Senior Mommysavers Member
Join Date: Jul 2006
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The problem with the whole juvenile system is the laws reguarding minors are written with the words "In the best intrest of the minor" and too many judges around the country hang on those words in their decisions. *They don't have to state why they are doing what they are doing, just that "in the best interest of the child" this is their decision. *It is how they pass on their beliefs and opinions without stating them.
The problem with this statement is no one has ever defined "best interest". *The courts get to interpret it how they choose. *So what may be good for one may not be good for another. *On the other hand had these parents pulled a different judge this may not have been the decision.
Sorry guys, the juvenile system is a sore topic with me. *I've had to walk through it for the last 18 months because DS decided to sneak out one night and get into trouble. *He got arrested, we share custody of him now with the state, and we have no idea when he will get to come home. *Judge decided he should be placed in a group home as "it was in his best interest". *Judge actually told us that our keeping him grounded so much actually contributed to his sneaking out. *(Hello! *The kid was grounded so much because he was sneaking out all the time after hours.) *What made me the maddest was social services literally tried to come in and take the other 3 kids out of the home too after DS was made state ward. *Fortunately, I held strong to take them or get out of my life. *They left. *Yet where is SS for the teens running the streets in the middle of the night and getting into trouble? *
Sadly these parents and kid have a long road ahead of them. *The courts are so backed up with BS cases that it will take months to get appeals through. *If the child survives the treatment, the courts will hang by their decison and probably force it onto another later down the line, stating "what works for one....", if the child doesn't survive..........well I hope the parents sue the #### out of the state. *
Either way my heart goes out to this family, and all others who have ever had to deal with the courts when it comes to "the childs best interest".
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