A few weeks ago I should a pair of dh's pants. he had never wore them, so I listed them and that. Someone bought them and paid promptly. When I went to pack them I realiized a flaw in the fabric, so I emailed the buyer and told him about the flaw and offered a refund or possibly a discount. He emailed me back and was very nice and thanked me for being honest and asked if I could send pictures of the flaw, which I did and now I have yet to hear from him. i emailed him again last week and he has not responded. What would you do? I was thinking just refund, but I would hate to do that without him knowing to look for it.

I would give him another week before you do anything. He might be really busy, out of town, sick, whatever. It doesn't sound like a bad transaction or anything, so I would wait another week.