This may be a popular idea, but I always try to share as much of my infant clothes & gear that I can. My cousin & I have managed to dress 3 girls quite well by passing clothes back & forth. I have also given alot of clothes, toys, feeding items etc.. to a family my husband works with. They have adopted a precious baby girl and she can wear my daughters old clothes that have already been worn by at least 2 other girls! I feel good knowing that I am helping a family that is struggling more than we are. I have since met the Mom and we are becoming good freinds and are now also sharing coupons and shopping tips (kinda like a 2 sahm mommysavers!!)