"You know what charm is: a way of getting the answer yes without having asked any clear question." ~ Albert Camus

"All charming people have something to conceal, usually their total dependence on the appreciation of others." ~ Cyril Connolly

"Charm is the quality in others that makes us more satisfied with ourselves." ~ Henri-Frédéric Amiel

"It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious." ~ Oscar Wilde

I have to admit, when I clicked on "charm" to see what the quotes would say, this is NOT was I was expecting. These are an interesting view of that quality, but makes you think none the less.

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I've grown certain that the root of all fear is that we've been forced to deny who we are. ~ Frances Moore Lappe

I think out of all of them, this one stands out the most to me as to what I think is charming.

People like to be around others that make them feel good, which is why we say our babies are so "charming" or why we call a gentleman "charming". Their goals are to exude positive energy and make you feel good by knowing them.

I am not charming. I'm straightforward, blunt, sarcastic, funny as hell, warm & welcoming - but not charming.

me too!