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05-02-2007, 07:27 PM
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Aspergers is on the autism spectrum, but it's the opposite of the way some look at autism. Aspergers kids are usually highly intelligent, often early and precocious talkers, enunciate clearly (except they tend to speak quickly) and can be like "little Professors" about subjects. For instance, at three, my son could tell you everything about dinosaurs, what they ate, their habitats, which period, how many million years ago, etc. He knew nothing about cars. He knew every Pokemon and now Bionicle. They have narrow interests, but are experts. Yet, their social skills are lacking - many are "nerds", "geeks", etc. because they have other things going on that affect their physical skills - many are clumsy. They have a problem with where they are in space. My son can walk right by you and not notice you are there. Yet, if he sees you and recognizes you, he goes haywire with happy excitement. He has sensory issues and tracking issues, making it hard to play sports. Playing sports helps make you cool, you see.
Aspergers is mostly described as the little professor syndrome with the social skills issue. But it is much more than that and covers wide areas. Plus, each Aspie is different. Try googling it and you will see what I mean. My first clues were that he couldn't read other people's faces. Most kids can tell when to back off doing something. They learn by observing others and a lot of social niceties come naturally. Not to Aspies. They go by the rules and will let you know when you're not doing the same! They have a hard time with lies (heaven forbid when he finds out about Santa!) and don't understand why people do it, thus social issues.. It's a huge subject, but those are just some of the issues and markers. Many of these kids are very, very sensitive, while others have the opposite problem and can be aggressive. As adults they can come off as aloof, arrogant, etc. They have to work hard to learn the social niceties that most know.
Hope that is a start! Being an Aspie is a challenge, but with good tools, education and effort, they can be very successful.
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