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Old 02-26-2007, 03:46 PM   #1
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I'm feeling quite guilty as I went out yesterday and bought a new purse. Let me explain. My dh gets his bonus this month, we should have a few hundred extra $ that should probably go into savings. However, my last purse is really old, and I only paid $6 for it and well, it's falling apart.

Yesterday I was out with a friend and found a red leather purse that I loved! It was $41, but it's leather (and yes, it was on sale). So I bought it, and last night I decided to take it back, then today I decided to look at it again, and the next thing I had pulled the tags off and I'm carrying it.

So I'm feeling guilty.
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Old 02-26-2007, 04:24 PM   #2
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Don't feel so bad about this. You deserve a bonus too! Consider it a reward for all the great things you've been doing to save money for your family! I mean, you've got to have somewhere to keep all of that money you've been saving, right?
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oh my goodness if I felt guilty for every purse I bought...

Don't feel guilty, you deserve it!!!
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Old 02-26-2007, 04:47 PM   #4
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So.. you were using a ratty $6.00 purse for how long? And you feel bad for buying a purse that you're in love with.. because..?? Enjoy it!! We deserve 'treats' every now and then!

No guilt!! Enjoy that purse! Wish I could see a pic! Sounds awsome!!
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Old 02-26-2007, 04:50 PM   #5
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So.. you were using a ratty $6.00 purse for how long? And you feel bad for buying a purse that you're in love with.. because..?? Enjoy it!! We deserve 'treats' every now and then!

No guilt!! Enjoy that purse! Wish I could see a pic! Sounds awsome!!
What she said!
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Old 02-26-2007, 05:19 PM   #6
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Yup, I know the feeling but agree with all the others. Some times you just have to reward yourself and feel ok with it. That is your treat for the month (or how ever long you can justify it for) and I am sure you will sacrifice in so many other areas in the future.
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Old 02-26-2007, 06:05 PM   #7
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You deserve a bonus too!
Who can disagree wih Tink? I know it's hard. I've battled the same feelings, but you have worked hard and deserve a little reward, too. Enjoy your little reward!
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Ok now it's not like you went out and bought a $300 coach! (i've bought and then returned a coach before) Do not feel guilty you deserve it!
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$41 isn't bad, and I think you agree that you deserve it. I do buy the high-end purses because they last, have a lifetime guarantee and I keep them forever, rotating them. It is my one fetish/splurge. It's something you use every day and it is so personal, which is why I don't buy them ever used (unless I found a real Vuitton that I want and in no way can spend over $1,000 for).
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So.. you were using a ratty $6.00 purse for how long? And you feel bad for buying a purse that you're in love with.. because..?? Enjoy it!! We deserve 'treats' every now and then!

No guilt!! Enjoy that purse! Wish I could see a pic! Sounds awsome!!

I totally agree..you enjoy that purse!
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