Working on getting out of debt in this house
Basically put our house on a bare bones budget, everything left over after paying bills or not allocated to groceries, eating out or gas goes to debt reduction.
Cable TV - gone - back to rabbit ears
Blockbuster/ Netflicks - gone - check out movies from library and read more
Shopping - thrift stores are a splurge item now
Grocery - careful shopping, couponing and reduction - dropped $300 a month
That being said since January, a $4K legal matter has been saved for and completed. A $2K emergency fund has been established and placed in ING, a credit card went from $8K to 0 as of last week and making "normal" payments the other debts have dropped by $2K.
There is another $20K that needs to be taken care of, but on track to have it gone in mid 2008.
Some is budget cuts, then came part time/ odd jobs to make up the difference. A lot of it is about priorities. It was a lot more important to be out from under this debt than it was to watch cable tv, eat exciting reciepes, or eatting out.
I am a Dave Ramsy follower, made a few minor tweaks here and there but over all Dave is the tenant followed.
Here is a great calculator of what the actual cost is of your debts.
Snowball debt calculator - Become debt free at WhatsTheCost.com
However, you asking for help and starting to do research is the first step, acknowledge a problem. Likewise, you have to be a team for it to be truly successful. If your partner and you are not committed and on the same page the journey will be uch more difficult. Remember that the number one cause for divorce is money issues...
Just remeber the cuts and "sacrafices" you make now to get out of debt doesn't have to be a permament thing. I might get cable again in the future, some channels I do actually miss, but I would rather be debt free a lot more than watching the Discover channel, I can always watch a documentary on PBS or checked out from the library.
Best of luck to you and yours!