I'm really nervous about my pregnancy. When I told my boyfriend that I was pregnant his reaction was "maybe you're early enough you can just take a pill." I was shocked...sadly we had been through that before and afterwords I told him I could not and would not ever do that again. I've regreted it everyday, now that I'm pregnant again, I am just so nervous that something will happen, like he will stress me out too much.

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..Gavin..

He doesn't sound like the most supportive boyfriend. I hope things go better for you this time around!

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I'm sorry that he reacted that way. Please pm me if you need to talk, i don't know if I'll have a lot of advice, but I'll listen to anything you need to get off your chest!

Erin

Maybe he's just in shock. Hopefully things will get better. I'd take him to your doctor's appt's and maybe hearing the heartbeat will help. We are all here for you if you want to talk. Please take care of yourself.

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He might be in shock, and when he gets over the shock I hope for your sake he will be much more supportive.

Big Hugs I know this is a worrying time for you

Anne

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"When we know better we do better" Maya Angelou

How far along are you now? If he is able to, take him to your first DR appt. They do an ultrasound, and you can actually see the little one moving around- really amazing, and makes it so much more real.
Pm if you would like to, 15 years ago I was in a simlar postion and took you first route. I reget it every day too. I now have 2, soon to be three beautiful children, and am with the same man as back then! It is hard, but you need to do what you feel is right. Hopefully he will come around.
Remember- you have all of us to lean on!

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I'm about 5 weeks pregnant according to the guessing game. I'm trying to make my appointment for this coming tuesday, but him and myself are constantly fighting, his biggest problem is that he already has two children with his ex wife and he isn't ready for another one right now.

-I just wanted to add, that I'm grateful for the support, the first time around I had my boyfriend and even the clinic telling me I wasn't ready and I wouldn't be a good mom. I really appreciate it.

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..Gavin..

honey you will be a great mom...i hope things get better for you. we are all here for you.

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Measure wealth not by the things you have, but by the things you have for which you would not take money.

I, too, hope that things improve for you and your baby. Do you have a good relationship with your folks? You may need to lean on them for some support. Keep us posted on how your doing!

hunny if he wasn't ready for another one yet he should have wrapped it up. David told me he didnt even want child and hes go two, one from me and one from another. He LOVES both of his children and you should of seen the smile on his face when he first looked his lil girl in the eyes. They change you just gotta understand hes a man, and men suck. Hopefully you have a good strong support system around you...good luck and congradulations

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chels