I am pregnant with #3 now. We knew we wanted three, but have had many discussions about 4 (even though #3 is not here). I will have one year with all three at home with me and then we begin school. Although I know chaos and more will be in store for me, I think about 10 years from now and they will want to be with friends and in activities, so I will deal with the crazy house now. It scares us to think about all the activities they might want to do, the daily expenses and the most dreadful thought is college costs, but we will do all we can to help them.

I am 32 this year and I don't want a huge gap between babies and kids, so we are going for it now. I cannot imagine a day when we will travel in a car without carseats!

We have been trying for over a year for number 3. There is an 8 year gap between my first two (my oldest is from a previous marriage). And I dont want to wait too much longer- I am 34. I have always wanted 4, but now I am wondering if there will ever even be a number 3. I don't drink, or smoke, watch what I eat, I don't know. I am scared to get "help" from the doctors. I guess I have watched too much discovery health, and I really don't think I could handle multiples (I know the chances are small, but they are still there). Any way-I have always wanted more than 2, but right now we are just letting nature take it's course.

I am new to this site....but am in the same situation. We have 2 girls and I go back and forth about wanting #3. I think my DH would want one if we didnt have to deal with the baby stage...he is also pretty nervous about my health being pregnant.

So anyways...I am in the same boat as you and I wish that I had a crystal ball to just see what life would be like with a 3rd! Don't you?!