I went to my 4.5 mth check up, and my cervix had started to thin. They were not too concerned about it, but I had also started to contract. They changed my appointments from seeing the Dr mthly, to every two weeks. I was not put on bed rest until I was 5.5mths pregnant, and I had started to dilate. They gave me steroid shots at 1cm, and complete bed rest when I had dilated to 2cms. I stayed at 2cm for about 2mths, but I made sure that I did EVERYTHING that the Dr recommended, as I knew that every week those babies were in me was better than them being in the NICU.
I did on my own accord, quit my job, ( I knew that I was going to be a SAHM) when my cervix started to thin, and stopped work at 5mths.
My recommendation, is tell her to listen to her body. If she feels funky at all, call the Dr. I felt like I had the flu at 7mths, and was told to go to the ER, and I was in active labor, but did not know it, as I never felt the contractions. I was put in hospital for 3 weeks, had the babies at 32.6weeks, and I am so happy that I made the babies my priority.
Now, they are happy and heathly at 9.5mths.
Good luck!! It is alot of fun!
