Hip Mom Rule #5: Just Because You Can Get It On Doesn't Mean You Should Wear It
by Heidi A. Burns
In every mother's closet, nestled deep in the darkness of the back corner, lies a tub of clothes that once fit. These are what we affectionately call the "pre-baby" clothes. These clothes are the measuring stick by which new mothers will gauge their success in losing the baby-weight. But, truth be told, not everyone should be wearing their pre-baby jeans. Ever.
Like every other new mom, I tried on my pre-baby jeans just six weeks after my first baby was born. I had lost a ton of weight and was sure I was back to my old self. Well, let me tell you, there is nothing on this earth that was going to be able to slide my thighs into those jeans. Dejected and demoralized, I put them back in the tub and shoved the tub to the back of my closet.
Almost three years later, one year after the birth of my second son, I again pulled out that tub of clothes. What a day. Those jeans slid on. They were a little snug, sure, but they were on. Now I could join the ranks of women who were in their pre-baby jeans, right?
I came dancing down the stairs to gloat to my husband. I did not get the reaction I was expecting. First of all, a hip mom should know that just because you can zip them up doesn't mean they look good. They were snug. Okay, so I could barely sit down. Second of all, these jeans were cool four years ago. Jean styles don't change a lot, but they do change. A hip mom know this. She buys new jeans.
Babies change women's bodies. I used to shop in the junior's section, but in reality, very few moms ever wear junior size anything! That was just not going to happen again. So, I did what any hip mom would do. I went to the store. I found a great sale on awesome, hip jeans. I bought a couple of pairs in the smallest size that I have worn since the babies were born. I pulled them on, effortlessly, and looked in the mirror. I will never have the small hips of my pre-baby self, but with my new jeans, I looked pretty good. Okay, really good. And I could sit down and breathe at the same time.
Use your old clothes as a guide. Let them inspire you. But let them inspire you to get in shape, accept yourself, and go shopping! Reward yourself with new clothes. Stay hip. Don't let the joy of fitting into your pre-baby clothes sabotage your efforts at being the hippest, coolest mom around.
About the Author: Heidi Burns is a freelance writer, editor, and adjunct faculty member. She earned an M.A. from Iowa State University in 2002 and
has since married, lived in three states, had two children, and adjuncted for four different colleges. Free time is elusive to her, but if she ever did
find a spare moment, she would most likely take a long, uninterrupted nap. For more information and details, please contact Heidi A. Burns.
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